very stupid problem I have been having with my hair...

**jennierom** · January 1st, 2019, 04:21 PM

Hello I have the weirdest problem with my hair... Okay, so I have almost waist length hair and pretty thick...you would think I could do anything with my hair..well I can't/don't ever wear my hair all down! Kind of long story but I had side bangs and they grew out so i wanted side bangs again but the hairstylist who trimmed my bangs pretty much messed up (my life story) and when she didn't even charge me for it, I should have known something was up. Now I can't even wear my hair all down because I feel it's fugly. I can't even put my hair half up like every other woman/girl! Because the hair on my sides don't seem to grow or grow at a slow rate for some reason. I was in a car accident few years ago and they had to cut one side of my hair to stitch my head... Anyways would pictures be helpful to better understand what I am talking about? I don't want to go to another hairstylist and have them mess up my hair even more. I just want to be able to wear my hair all down instead of always wearing baseball caps or ponytails... I am sad....

**Olux** · January 1st, 2019, 08:35 PM

Oh im sorry your hairstylist messed up. We all have been there ��Im trying to grow my side bangs too. My hairstylist kept them short, cause balayage looks better that way (according to her), but now im growing my natural color and i find so hard to grow my sides as well. I've found diadems very helpful and stylish. Some times i secure the sides with hairpins for extra grip. I hope it helps you!

**lapushka** · January 2nd, 2019, 04:25 PM

First of all, welcome here!

I would just leave it alone; best thing to do after a bad haircut is to grow it back out, then have it fixed by someone else.

Good luck; and good luck on your journey.

**jennierom** · January 3rd, 2019, 04:25 PM

Ya but the thing I don't understand is, why can't I wear my hair all down??? Do I have a cowlick? I should still be able to wear my hair all down shouldn't I???

**spidermom** · January 3rd, 2019, 04:27 PM

I really don't understand what you're talking about. You might have a cowlick, but there are ways to work with it.

**Doreen** · January 3rd, 2019, 04:51 PM

I think a picture or two would be helpful. I'm not sure I fully understand either.

**lapushka** · January 3rd, 2019, 04:52 PM

Yep, you've lost me.

**milosmomma** · January 15th, 2019, 05:29 PM

Do you mean little wispies on your temples? Mine never grow and are really thin now since having a baby a year ago. I feel wearing all my hair upand back draws more attention to those areas though so it may be something different you are talking about. I second or third that a pic would be most helpful to explain.