Originally Posted by
bellydancefae
I think the fill-in-the-blank option would be great! However, I have to argue against the Cheese thing... I've read this forum off and on for years and never saw the term explained until this particular thread. When I saw it was a gender option, I was confused, and I'd like to think I'm at least moderately intelligent.
As far as the issue of getting offended on behalf of others... it's less getting offended and more about supporting something we are passionate about. If this thread were instead about requiring us to define ourselves by our race, and the only options were Black, White, and Other, there'd be people raising concerns as well. Sure, some people who fall under the "other" category would be just fine identifying as such, but others would not appreciate the terminology. Sure, they could answer falsely, or just pick something at random. But when you're passionate about social justice and equality for all no matter how they identify, you usually see that kind of marginalization as a symptom of a much bigger issue in society.
In general, I think people's identities should be defined by themselves rather than by others who only have outward appearances to go off of. It might seem small, but being able to define yourself on your online profiles in a way which is meaningful and true to you is a BIG thing when historically and even currently you are discriminated against for who you are. A person's gender really ought to have very little to do with how others interact with them, just like race, socio-economic status, age, physical ability, etc. We all want to be treated equally and fairly so we ought to support changes that make that possible for everyone.
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