WittyWordsmith, you might want to look into the alcohol thing a little more, because not ALL alcohols are drying, and I know you'd hate to steer someone wrong.
This link of
Ingredients Commonly Found in Hair-Care Products is a resource that many of us here have found helpful (I keep it bookmarked, in fact).
The alcohols that you tend to see in styling products (like gel, mousse, hair spray) are the ones that are more likely to be drying. The alcohols that are found in conditioners and moisture treatments tend to be fatty alcohols, which are emollients with lubricate and also help to stabilize emulsions. There is nothing to fear from a fatty alcohol in a hair care product -- and our options would be SEVERELY limited if we had to avoid EVERY type of alcohol, as fatty alcohols are in almost every type of conditioning product.
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