Yeah people who lie to you about what they'll cut suck and make you not wanna cut your hair.
My mom once said shed give me straight across bangs and didnt. Then i said thats not what I meant and she ranted about how ugly they were and why would I want that like she never actually agreed to do it. Its like she just assumed I must have meant something different because she thought it was ugly... its a weird thing when people abnormally care about YOUR appearance. Like.... mind your own business why do you have an aggressive opinion on this?
Im not afraid of hair cuts but I dont think you should be either. You are in control of them, WATCHING how much you cut off. It's not magic and it wont turn into something yu didn't do, unlike when you were a kid or when you visit a salon and you ask for one thing and then its POOF another.
Even if you don't cut your hair, it should be because you dont wanna not because you're afraid. I hope you figure it out
Another option, if you are okay with your aversion to hair cuts and want to embrace it, is to grow out your fringe and just grow to terminal. Least maitenence of any hair style....
but overall, if anything stresses you out that much, you gotta do some mental homework with yourself and ask yourself lots of questions about your own feelings and motivations and what you really want... like why are you making this thread? Do you want to not be afraid of cutting your hair? Are you hoping to find others who dont want to cut their hair and go all out with the no hair cutting thing? And if you do want to cut your hair, then maybe the loss of hair isn't the real fear, its the visit, its trusting someone else, trusting yourself...
But remember, if you look at your hair... see 5 mm on the other side of the scissors.... thats all that will come off and that's that.... Before I ever cut my own hair (cut my bangs before and also had cut considerable length off...) I had this irrational fear/thought that even though I thought I was doing one thing it would turn out into another. But it's not true. You just have to be careful and LOOK at what you're doing.
best of luck doing whatever you wanna do
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