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    Default Question for hairstylists

    Paleocurls post about her experience at the salon got me to thinking.

    Do hair stylist (cosmetology?) courses involve training beyond hair cuts and processes? Do stylists get any kind of interpersonal skills training or sensitivity training?

    I've only found 1 stylist in my life that truly did what I wanted and at least PRETENDED to be happy to work on my hair.

    I have been thinking about getting my hair colored at the salon. My hair color issues are complicated and I need some professional help (lol, maybe in more than 1 way). I am so scared to go to a salon and get trashed, both physically and mentally, that I keep putting it off.

    The last trip to the salon in July, the stylist was so insulting that I just do not want to go through the humiliation again.

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    Default Re: Question for hairstylists

    For hair coloring, all stylists are most definitely NOT created equal. While all are trained to color or perm and that kind of thing, not all are good at it, and really understand the chemistry they're performing.

    I therefore recommend that you consult with professional colorists. There are those who specialize in one aspect or another of hair care.

    As it concerns cutting, I recommend finding a stylist via interviewing and some watching, when a salon is slow, not when it's uber busy, and find a professional to work with. I have conducted interviews where they say they'll cut my hair as I wish, but I could tell they weren't committed to the idea, so I just let them go.

    I also tend to prefer stylists that are more "mature" age wise as these folks tend to have lots of experience, be better at the personal nature and relationship, and are generally done with using your head of hair as a place to make their personal statements and declare their ego and purpose as a stylist.

    I also tend to stray from the fancy, big-name salons and work with lower-end salons.

    However, if you ever have an opportunity to visit a George Michael salon, I can only recommend you GO. It's worth the bucks. The experience will be like nothing you've ever experienced before. I had the good fortunate to visit the Madora Salon in Manhattan, New York once, and it numbers among my grand life experiences.

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    Default Re: Question for hairstylists

    Not a stylist.

    However, I wanted to say that I've walked into hair salons on impulse many times during my life, and I only ended up walking out with something I didn't ask for or like once, but the stylist was probably 8-3/4 months pregnant, and it was near the end of the day. I should have known better.

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    Default Re: Question for hairstylists

    Yes we get trained on how to talk to clients, how to be friendly and make them feel comfortable. But you know once you graduate from school, get your license and make it through your job interview...most people do what they want. Or should I say "their version of what you want".

    And most cosmetology schools try to teach that short is good, long not so much. The first day of school all the girls in my class with long hair were told by our instructors that by the time we graduate our hair would be short.

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    Default Re: Question for hairstylists

    Quote Originally Posted by honeydippedxo View Post
    The first day of school all the girls in my class with long hair were told by our instructors that by the time we graduate our hair would be short.
    I can see how this would be beneficial to the business and I understand that a salon needs to be a viable business but... wow - I wasn't expecting that. But it does make total sense to me - just that it's the opposite of how I think.

    I was totally surprised to find two long hair salons in walking distance from our apartment in Zurich. When I asked GM why they don't have a salon in Australia they told me that they would love to but cannot see that the general population would support it. I can't understand why...



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    Default Re: Question for hairstylists

    I usually go to the walk in type salons. I have been going to this particular one for 20 years, so most of the " oldies" know me. I have had my share of the noob's, and pretty bad hair from listening to them. Now I just go in for bang trim every 5 or 6 weeks. I make them repeat how I want them cut.
    I also know that they are taught that the expensive chemical laden products are the best.

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    Default Re: Question for hairstylists

    Depends on the stylist. My mom [a former hairstylist] specializes in perms and cutting, she sucks at dyeing.

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    Default Re: Question for hairstylists

    I made it all the way through beauty school with my long hair intact. My instructors did not push us to alter our hair unless we wanted to and my hair generally was viewed as "gorgeous" and highly desirable. There was not a dislike for long hair in my school environment and several other students had long hair as well. Many of them did decide to cut their hair while in school, everyone is experimenting and the temptation to try a funky cut or color is strong. The wildest thing I did was get some chunky highlights that I dyed over a week later, just wasn't me.

    I think communication in general is difficult for many people and it is a very hard thing to teach an individual. Stylists with the knack of speaking to people with kindness and confidence, and being good listeners in return, already had those skills in general - it really can't be taught. Those stylists will do better.

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    First of all, THANK YOU all for replying! I moved recently to a city where I don't know anyone or have any family, except my kids and hubby of course lol I left my BFF and all the familiarities of home behind. Finding this forum has been such a relief.

    heidi w. ~ Your hair is such an inspiration, so lovely, healthy and long! I never realized that hairstylists would specialize in color. When I couldn't get an appt with my favorite stylist, I would just pop in to the Regis at the mall. I regret it now because that is where I went the last time. I will definitely look at color specialists. I had thought about going to a salon and watching the different stylists but I had no idea if I would be allowed to do that. My dream is to go to a George Michael salon, I think they would have much more... sympathy? about my hair ordeals. I had looked up Rapunzels in Columbus OH, as they pop up when you google GM. I certainly deserve some pampering. Thanks again for you reply!

    spidermom ~ Can I just say that you have... amazing, beautiful, awe-inspiring hair. Your signature pic just made my jaw drop when you changed it. I'm so flattered that you even read the post, thank you. And yes, I've done the same thing. They should have a boot on a spring at most salons that kick you in the butt as you walk out lol

    honeydippedxo ~ Thank you for replying! I do understand that hairdressers are in the business to cut, style, color and try all the new innovations. Its just a shame that only a cut above the collar is seen as "style". We need more hairdressers like you, that actually LIKE long hair

    julliams ~ So did you get to experience the GM salons in Zurich? I would love a chance to go, my only hesitation is that I have very short bangs. After reading GM philosophy about natures balance I'm worried that I'd get a stern talking to about growing my bangs out. Which I just can't do unless they offer Botox too lol

    Libbylou ~ Luckily Ive been trimming my own bangs for years. I like them blunt and pretty short. I don't know how many times Ive had hairstylists tell me NOT to wear them like this. They want to layer them or put some weird arch in them. Ive only bought 1 salon product ever. Sadly it stained a hotel shower curtain so badly that I had to pay for it

    Orangerthanred ~ What's your moms opinion on henna? I had a stylist ask me one time if I henna. She said if I did that she wouldn't work on my hair. I never have henna'd tho.


    UltraBella
    ~ Sounds like you went to a great school! When the hair dresser asks me about what I want I have learned to be specific but I am always self deprecating. I tell them I know I sound like a nut lol but my hair is very important to me. I tell them what various torture I have put my hair through, my general routine and what my goals are. I try to never tell them about past bad experiences, because its too much like yakking on and on about your evil ex on a date with someone new. I plan on following heidi w.'s advice and spy on a few salons before I commit.

    Thanks to all the ladies that commented and replied

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    Default Re: Question for hairstylists

    Maybe you could try one of the Texas salons in the long-haired friendly salon list. They might have more sympathetic stylists, although I suppose there's no reason that a stylist that is good with long hair would also be especially good at color.

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