Boyfriend/Husband/Significant other: opinion on hair

**Ishje** · April 7th, 2011, 01:47 PM

My BF likes my hair long, but he might think that my goal is a bit too long.
now I am at tailbone and he loves it and compliments it, but when I told him I would really love to know what it is like at knee length he seemed to have some doubts

**firefly42** · April 7th, 2011, 01:47 PM

DH loves my hair long although he's a little bit unsure about my goal (classic)...he's not sure how he feels about that much hair and he's afraid he's gonna wake up one day and be strangling in it lol!

**prof-annie** · April 7th, 2011, 01:49 PM

my partner likes long hair but not the fact that I scream and wake him up when he rolls on it when we are sleeping!

**Othala** · April 7th, 2011, 01:52 PM

Hubby loves my long hair and he is keen to see it longer. He supports me by giving me scalp massages and..umm...in other ways that release estrogen and are good for hair, LOL.

**danacc** · April 7th, 2011, 01:57 PM

My husband likes long hair on me. By "long hair" he means APL or longer, which seems short to me! (Mine has been waist-length or longer since years before we met.)

He's been supportive of any length I've decided to try, any up-do, stretched-out washings, unconventional washings, putting food in it (coconut oil, honey, coconut milk, evoo), and so forth. Basically, if it makes me happy, he's good with it.

**BlueCanary** · April 7th, 2011, 02:27 PM

We were just talking about this last night. His "ideal" length would be mid back, between BSL and waist. I'm currently at classic and kind of just seeing how it goes. He says it really doesn't matter to him because its MY hair. So it matters what I think about it. It has taken him a LONG time to come to terms with how I feel about my hair and that getting a bad or "short" haircut is A Very Big Deal. To him, not so much. So, he's supportive and likes it because I like it.

**FireBunny** · April 7th, 2011, 02:34 PM

My partner says he loves my (currently waist length) hair and he's really excited that I plan to grow it to classic length, but he can't help laughing when I walk around the house for two hours with goop & plastic wrap on my head.

**mrs_coffee** · April 7th, 2011, 02:39 PM

He doesn't care. He loves short hair and long hair and everything in between. He has no opinion on me growing out my hair. He insists that I look beautiful either way so it doesn't matter. Sometimes I wish he did have an opinion, but he just doesn't.

**Fingolphin** · April 7th, 2011, 02:44 PM

My wife is not a fan,

but nor does she hate it. She has just always preferred me with short hair.

**selderon** · April 7th, 2011, 02:54 PM

DH has been indicating regularly for years that he wants me to grow my hair longer. The longest it has been since we met is just a little longer than shoulder length. He saw a picture of me when my hair was BSL+ and was gobsmacked.

The only bit I'm not looking forward to is the first time he props himself up on his elbow on top of my hair.