Is it all about your hair, or do you have other problems you are taking out on your hair? Stress does weird things to us sometimes.
I recommend you go to a different hairdresser, tell her that you want to grow your hair out (name APL as a goal length) and you want to start fresh. Ask her to even out your ends (you have probably given yourself some splits with all that self-trimming if you use regular scissors), and give it a regular shape from which to grow.
Then, get some cute kerchiefs, snoods, bandanas, hats, and wear them for three months. Go back to the salon every three months to get a small trim to avoid a mullet.
And read Igor's article on growing from bald, there is also a "shortie" thread on the Mane forum and a social club for people starting out from short haircuts.
For the stress and impulsive cutting, look at your life and see what needs fixing. Sometimes we cut our hair because that's the easiest to "fix" and you get instant gratification in the process. Not a good idea.
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