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    Quote Originally Posted by Bat View Post
    I didn't reply to you lapushka I wasn't mean to you like you and others were to me and I didn't completely change the first post, chromis confirmed a page or so a go that the topic was approved, so I edited the description to say that the mods approved it so I wouldn't get these unsolicited opinions I did not change anything else I've been nothing but polite the whole time I've been to LHC. No one but moderators can tell me what I can and can't post.

    And what if some new person asked a question, a question that has 5 other topics and a bunch of people reply your question is redundant it's been answered before?

    How do you think that new person would feel? it really upset me how negative people were about it.

    Just because I try to be nice doesn't mean I'm not going to defend myself to bullying
    You started your post with "let me know if this topic is redundant." How are the responses you received unsolicited?

    Yes, when new people post a topic that exists, they are directed to the threads in question, and I've never seen anyone take that personally either.

    I don't understand what's happening here. :/
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    Default Re: Choose Your Milestone Journey

    Quote Originally Posted by blackgothicdoll View Post
    You started your post with "let me know if this topic is redundant." How are the responses you received unsolicited?

    Yes, when new people post a topic that exists, they are directed to the threads in question, and I've never seen anyone take that personally either.

    I don't understand what's happening here. :/
    Me neither, but I'm out of this thread as of... right now!
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    I don't remember him asking for opinions. The original post was "please remove topic if it's redundant"
    The reason he removed it as he said was to stop all the nitpicking and bickering that came from it. Just as much as if you didn't see the point of this thread, it was just as pointless to say there is no point. Mods approved, I don't see a problem. I don't understand why it became such a problem in the first place


    Anyways, back on topic of original post
    I want to
    S&D regularly until all heat damage is removed, about another year
    Learn more protective styles
    Grow to waist by end 2021
    Then even out my choppy hemline to a v or u
    Let grow until TBL with microtrims in between
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    Default Re: Choose Your Milestone Journey

    Popped back in to see the updates as Ive been thinking about it, and find reading about peoples goal plans quite fun.

    I have a distinct lack of labelled goals (maybe thats why it interests me so much) but Im hoping to love my hair and enjoy it as it grows.
    Also I hope to learn methods for ease and comfort as it gets longer, Im in the mid-thigh for Christmas 2022 thread which is the nearest to a goal I have. Which is more a comfort/acknowledgement that Ill still be here and still be growing at that time!
    My next real goal will be CL.

    Best wishes on your journey, Bat & all here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by blackgothicdoll View Post
    You started your post with "let me know if this topic is redundant." How are the responses you received unsolicited?

    Yes, when new people post a topic that exists, they are directed to the threads in question, and I've never seen anyone take that personally either.

    I don't understand what's happening here. :/

    Before I run screaming from this thread, hair on fire (sorry, had to) I just have to add that one of the things that prompted me to join up on this site was the lack, for the most part, of such ... excuse me ... childish behaviour. Bat, I'm sorry if you feel bullied, but I fail to see that here. I know I've suggested patience to you a few times, perhaps you might check yourself for taking your impatience out on this thread, in a sense.

    I'm pretty sure we all want to see you reach your goals. It just seems, a teensy bit, that you're projecting. Pax, friend.
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    Quote Originally Posted by blackgothicdoll View Post
    You started your post with "let me know if this topic is redundant." How are the responses you received unsolicited?

    Yes, when new people post a topic that exists, they are directed to the threads in question, and I've never seen anyone take that personally either.

    I don't understand what's happening here. :/
    I don’t get it either.

    Quote Originally Posted by GordonMurphella View Post
    Before I run screaming from this thread, hair on fire (sorry, had to) I just have to add that one of the things that prompted me to join up on this site was the lack, for the most part, of such ... excuse me ... childish behaviour. Bat, I'm sorry if you feel bullied, but I fail to see that here. I know I've suggested patience to you a few times, perhaps you might check yourself for taking your impatience out on this thread, in a sense.

    I'm pretty sure we all want to see you reach your goals. It just seems, a teensy bit, that you're projecting. Pax, friend.
    Yup. Sounds like someone has a victim complex. Going to disappear from the thread too.
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    Hmmmm.

    I suppose my milestones look something like this, in order of achievability:

    - reach classic/FTL-ish sometime in the summer
    - maintain for the rest of the year or whatever it takes for me to once again think that my ends are tolerable
    - possibly grow onward towards MTL
    - ...while getting rid of bleached hair at a reasonable pace

    Then again, at the same time, I think it could be really cool to cut back up to hip again and get rid of a huge chunk of damaged hair in one go! Hip-BCL is a really comfortable and practical length for me; I mean, it can't be a coincidence that I "maintained" my hair there for well over half a decade without particularly meaning to do so! It would make more sense to do a chop like that on bleached hair rather than completely virgin hair, I guess.
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    So, my goals are very similar to Ylva's ones

    1. The first goal for this year is TBL, it will happens in about 6 month. My plane is, for now, to grow it till pretty much the end of the year and then I'd like to cut at least 1 inch. Ultimate length goal is between CL and FTL (I have very long arms and hands) .
    2. Get rid of the damage. All of it. This will take years, but I can't wait to cut those 10 inches of blond hair I have.
    3. I need to find an haircut that suits my hair because I'm not satisfied.

    Ylva I can totally understand you for the chop! I sometimes think about it but to a longer length, like from classic to bcl.
    Next Goal: TBL. Final Goal: CL+.
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    I haven't thought about it yet, so this seems fun to do now!

    *get to waist length during the summer with a small trim and grow the remnants of my bangs out longer
    *try to maintain thick-ish ends with a straight hemline while letting it grow to hip
    *for now my goal is I guess mid-thigh length, so I guess for the next few years I'll just be maintaining the ends while waiting for it to grow
    That leaves me plenty of time to learn new hairstyles, and what works best for my hair!

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    Quote Originally Posted by blackgothicdoll View Post
    You started your post with "let me know if this topic is redundant." How are the responses you received unsolicited?

    Yes, when new people post a topic that exists, they are directed to the threads in question, and I've never seen anyone take that personally either.

    I don't understand what's happening here. :/
    (Second this.)


    Back to the topic: my goal is to grow to waist with minimum trims (twice a year max!) and after that, hair condition permitting, perhaps continue to elbow length. I want to have a thick blunt hemline and I'm willing to sacrifice length to keep the hemline. Other goal linked to the first one is to find a routine that reduces split ends and breakage. I have a spot on the right temple where hair gets more easily damaged than elsewhere and I wish to tackle this.
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