Originally Posted by
RenaissanceGirl
Oooh, just read your last post. Your hair is absolutely not your problem.
Your problem is that you deal with your stress by cutting your hair. While this is less dangerous than traditional "cutting," it is in fact the same thing -- and can escalate to the more harmful version.
Please allow your hair stress to take a back seat for a little bit. If nothing else, get it cut crazy short (like, buzzed) and know that it won't be forever before it grows back. Besides, you have an awesome facial structure, and your face can handle it for a little while.
Meanwhile, please seek some kind of assistance for how you handle difficult situations. It is so incredibly common to manage your stress by attacking something you CAN control (like your hair). You're absolutely not alone. If you attend religious services regularly, your clergyman should be able to speak to you, or at least point you to help. If not, you should seek it professionally. For many people, therapy is incredibly helpful; others simply need a support group to help them handle their stress, and still others have a chemical imbalance that needs to be treated medically. None of these are any reason for shame. I hope you will find what works for you.
In the meantime, the small amount of experience I have on this board tells me that the people here are warm and welcoming, and you can also come here when you need to talk.
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