Hey all! I stumbled across this forum many times, form many different searches, and have read many articles already

Here's my question; a lot of posts, and outside sites suggest to let your hair air dry, and not to use, or to minimize the use of heat tools.

I typically wash my hair at night, and I have let it air dry.. I find that when it air dries it gets really frizzy (lots of broken damage from heat tools etc) My hair is also no straight, not wavy, not curly, but just off.. the front pieces of my hair are very light so they tend to curl; I have a small cow lick on my right side; my hair is very fine, but I have a lot of it..

I'm not sure how to go heatless without looking awful! I am jealous of women with curly/wavy hair that can put in gel, scrunch and go to work with wet hair that will dry nice..

I seem to have to run a straightener over mine to smooth and tame it.

Any suggestions??