elvishkat
June 24th, 2012, 06:14 PM
Hi all,
I've moved to France to stay with family for a year, and have had to experiment with local product to try and get my routine sorted. I brought no product with me because it was heavy but dear god, I am this close to getting an Australian friend to ship my regular stuff over because I AM SO FRUSTRATED RIGHT NOW.
It doesn't help being around my family who just don't 'get' the long hair thing. There's also a few huge what-not-to-dos in here, so I hope someone else doesn't make the same mistakes.
Firstly, my method is CO using something very close to cinnamon hair's method (http://www.beyondclassiclength.com/routine.html) except I was washing only once per week or so in Australia. I use something very cheap and very runny to wash with (it is pink and comes in 1l bottles for about $2 from dollar stores). I use something cone-free to condition with, I have used Natural/Organic Instinct's conditioner to detangle, but occasionally something else similar (as long as it's -cone free). I usually pay around the 25 dollar mark for this, and it's probably overkill, but hey. I've used this routine with out trouble for about the past 7 years, with occasional experiments and have mostly returned back.
So! I get here and the first thing I notice in the supermarkets -- there is a lot less of a range of conditioner. I am used to seeing the shampoo and the matching conditioner -- there is no matching conditioner for about 1/2 of the shampoos here! :O In fact, there is a 'home brand' or cheapo shampoo, and no matching conditioner. (ETA: Also there seems to be a larger section of '2 in 1' shampoo/condish...)
I end up fussing for ages over the selection and take two bottles. One is a very plain 'daily' conditioner -- it seems the most liquidy I can find -- and the other is a big bottle of -cone free that claims to also detangle.
The washing conditioner doesn't work -- it doesn't lubricate all the exfoliated skin enough to move it away, and my head is left a little greasy, and looks about as bad as 10 days without washing in about 3.
The detangling/conditioning conditioner however...it felt wrong. Something was up with my hair. I had ended up choosing this one after about an hour of frustrated reading of labels (I know a small amount of French) and apparently I hadn't read the label carefully enough, because after using it, I found it contained... Hydrogen Peroxide.
What on earth?! The bottle mentioned /nothing/ about lightening, and claimed to be all kinds of 'nourishing' and similar nonsense on the bottle. I felt /horrible/. My hair has taken a bit of damage from it, sadly, I just hope it's not too bad in the long run. But I am seriously pissed off that that happened, I know it was me misreading the bottle but how about most people who don't bother reading ingredient lists...HYDROGEN PEROXIDE is not something that's exactly...mild!!
I wash a second time using the 'washing' conditioner and some cone-y l'oreal conditioner which feels nice and slippery while I'm in the shower. I'm okay with using cones very occasionally.
However my hair still feels and appears greasy down to my shoulders when I take it out from the damp braid a day later. Th
ere is a little build up from the washing conditioner and my head feels itchy and unhappy. I also have the 'crunchy' feeling on my ends which reminds me why I don't use -cones all that often.
Wash number three since I've gotten here...I am pretty miserable about my hair, I'm used to it usually calming down after a nice wash and people around me are all 'wow your hair looks gross, why don't you just use shampoo?' and I start to buy into it, even though I've not used shampoo regularly for over 7 years.
I wash a third time, with loads of cone-y conditioner and a mild sls containing shampoo I find in the shower.
So much regret.
My hair is now greasy down to my shoulderblades, doing that weird matting thing that -cones makes it do, itchy and visibly flaking. And I washed it yesterday.
So angry at myself for using shampoo, I should remember this happens!!
I am desperate for product advice, I have Amazon UK available to me as well as anything I can find in French stores (Ile de France region, if relevant) but I'm kind of hoping not to blow too much money and damage my hair experimenting further.
Thanks to anyone who read through all this. Trying not to tear up, I know it's just hair but it's being /so/ /frustrating/ right now!!
I've moved to France to stay with family for a year, and have had to experiment with local product to try and get my routine sorted. I brought no product with me because it was heavy but dear god, I am this close to getting an Australian friend to ship my regular stuff over because I AM SO FRUSTRATED RIGHT NOW.
It doesn't help being around my family who just don't 'get' the long hair thing. There's also a few huge what-not-to-dos in here, so I hope someone else doesn't make the same mistakes.
Firstly, my method is CO using something very close to cinnamon hair's method (http://www.beyondclassiclength.com/routine.html) except I was washing only once per week or so in Australia. I use something very cheap and very runny to wash with (it is pink and comes in 1l bottles for about $2 from dollar stores). I use something cone-free to condition with, I have used Natural/Organic Instinct's conditioner to detangle, but occasionally something else similar (as long as it's -cone free). I usually pay around the 25 dollar mark for this, and it's probably overkill, but hey. I've used this routine with out trouble for about the past 7 years, with occasional experiments and have mostly returned back.
So! I get here and the first thing I notice in the supermarkets -- there is a lot less of a range of conditioner. I am used to seeing the shampoo and the matching conditioner -- there is no matching conditioner for about 1/2 of the shampoos here! :O In fact, there is a 'home brand' or cheapo shampoo, and no matching conditioner. (ETA: Also there seems to be a larger section of '2 in 1' shampoo/condish...)
I end up fussing for ages over the selection and take two bottles. One is a very plain 'daily' conditioner -- it seems the most liquidy I can find -- and the other is a big bottle of -cone free that claims to also detangle.
The washing conditioner doesn't work -- it doesn't lubricate all the exfoliated skin enough to move it away, and my head is left a little greasy, and looks about as bad as 10 days without washing in about 3.
The detangling/conditioning conditioner however...it felt wrong. Something was up with my hair. I had ended up choosing this one after about an hour of frustrated reading of labels (I know a small amount of French) and apparently I hadn't read the label carefully enough, because after using it, I found it contained... Hydrogen Peroxide.
What on earth?! The bottle mentioned /nothing/ about lightening, and claimed to be all kinds of 'nourishing' and similar nonsense on the bottle. I felt /horrible/. My hair has taken a bit of damage from it, sadly, I just hope it's not too bad in the long run. But I am seriously pissed off that that happened, I know it was me misreading the bottle but how about most people who don't bother reading ingredient lists...HYDROGEN PEROXIDE is not something that's exactly...mild!!
I wash a second time using the 'washing' conditioner and some cone-y l'oreal conditioner which feels nice and slippery while I'm in the shower. I'm okay with using cones very occasionally.
However my hair still feels and appears greasy down to my shoulders when I take it out from the damp braid a day later. Th
ere is a little build up from the washing conditioner and my head feels itchy and unhappy. I also have the 'crunchy' feeling on my ends which reminds me why I don't use -cones all that often.
Wash number three since I've gotten here...I am pretty miserable about my hair, I'm used to it usually calming down after a nice wash and people around me are all 'wow your hair looks gross, why don't you just use shampoo?' and I start to buy into it, even though I've not used shampoo regularly for over 7 years.
I wash a third time, with loads of cone-y conditioner and a mild sls containing shampoo I find in the shower.
So much regret.
My hair is now greasy down to my shoulderblades, doing that weird matting thing that -cones makes it do, itchy and visibly flaking. And I washed it yesterday.
So angry at myself for using shampoo, I should remember this happens!!
I am desperate for product advice, I have Amazon UK available to me as well as anything I can find in French stores (Ile de France region, if relevant) but I'm kind of hoping not to blow too much money and damage my hair experimenting further.
Thanks to anyone who read through all this. Trying not to tear up, I know it's just hair but it's being /so/ /frustrating/ right now!!