tokitoki
April 3rd, 2012, 10:57 PM
Hey everyone,
I need some advice on how to better care for my ends. Here's the backstory:
I've never grown past my current length (an inch or two below BSL) because I hate the way my ends start to feel and chop them off. They get those L shaped bends, get really tangly, and start to feel rough. I haven't used a blowdryer or heat styler on my hair in over five years (okay I used a flat iron *once* during that time) and don't color my hair (except two small streaks that I had bleached and dyed pink a year ago - but I dont expect those to be healthy) so assuming a growth rate of .5 in/month (I'm not sure mine) 5 yrs * 6 in/yr = 30 inches which is longer than any of my hair, so my ends should be free from heat and chemical damage. I just bought a hairsense comb this past month, until then I'd only fingercombed. My hair is very wavy/loosely curly, if I let it air dry without touching it I can get ringlets about 1-1.5 inch (estimate) in diameter, but the longer I go without washing it the straighter it gets, and oiling and braiding or bunning stretches them out to looser waves.
So I just trimmed my hair a few weeks ago and resolved to protect my ends and finally break the trimming cycle. I've been doing CWC, oiling the ends with coconut oil, wearing my hair up with the ends tucked, and wrapping my hair in a scarf when I sleep for longer than that. And yet, my ends are already starting to bother me. I think that the damage is coming from my hair tangling a lot, even though I've been trying to avoid tangles by combing it and wearing it up. I feel like my hair just always tangles itself because of the wave, no matter what I do. I know that damage can cause tangles too, but I just can't figure out where the damage could be coming from, other than the tangles.
SO. Sorry that was so long. I'm just trying to provide all the pertinent info. Has anyone else experienced this? I'm looking for advice on what to do/ideas of what I might be doing wrong. Thanks in advance for responding or even just reading all this!
I need some advice on how to better care for my ends. Here's the backstory:
I've never grown past my current length (an inch or two below BSL) because I hate the way my ends start to feel and chop them off. They get those L shaped bends, get really tangly, and start to feel rough. I haven't used a blowdryer or heat styler on my hair in over five years (okay I used a flat iron *once* during that time) and don't color my hair (except two small streaks that I had bleached and dyed pink a year ago - but I dont expect those to be healthy) so assuming a growth rate of .5 in/month (I'm not sure mine) 5 yrs * 6 in/yr = 30 inches which is longer than any of my hair, so my ends should be free from heat and chemical damage. I just bought a hairsense comb this past month, until then I'd only fingercombed. My hair is very wavy/loosely curly, if I let it air dry without touching it I can get ringlets about 1-1.5 inch (estimate) in diameter, but the longer I go without washing it the straighter it gets, and oiling and braiding or bunning stretches them out to looser waves.
So I just trimmed my hair a few weeks ago and resolved to protect my ends and finally break the trimming cycle. I've been doing CWC, oiling the ends with coconut oil, wearing my hair up with the ends tucked, and wrapping my hair in a scarf when I sleep for longer than that. And yet, my ends are already starting to bother me. I think that the damage is coming from my hair tangling a lot, even though I've been trying to avoid tangles by combing it and wearing it up. I feel like my hair just always tangles itself because of the wave, no matter what I do. I know that damage can cause tangles too, but I just can't figure out where the damage could be coming from, other than the tangles.
SO. Sorry that was so long. I'm just trying to provide all the pertinent info. Has anyone else experienced this? I'm looking for advice on what to do/ideas of what I might be doing wrong. Thanks in advance for responding or even just reading all this!