theflummox
October 7th, 2011, 02:45 AM
(a tl;dr will be provided at the bottom for people who dislike idle chatter)
I come to you now, LHCers, for it is my time of need.
I discovered LHC three months ago. Up until then, my hair's life was torturous: I had never even considered "hair care". My has was always resilient, and aside from numerous split ends it always looked healthy; it was soft and shiny, maybe a bit frizzy but not dry. It was good, honest hair.
I've been chemically dying my hair since I was, say, 15 (I'm 20 now) and I've been flat ironing even before that. I flat ironed with a passion: see, when I started to pay attention to what my hair was like, back when I was 13, I was rewarded with a big frizzy, oily ball of... I dare not call it wavy hair, for my hair didn't fall in soft, beautiful waves but unruly bents!
So I began flat ironing it once, maybe twice per day for years. Then I decided that my natural mid brown hair was unbecoming of me, and that I desired dark, chocolatey shiny locks! In comes the hair dye.
I stopped flat ironing my hair daily about a year ago, but still did it occasionally. It has only been 6 months that I've completely stopped it, and 2 months that I've given up blowdrying as wall. I've decided to go completely heat free. I still dyed my hair, and I last dyed it at the beginning of September with an organic hair dye. I've decided to give this up as well and research henna and indigo instead.
In August, I started to CO my hair. I kept this up for 2 months and it wasn't half bad, but even though my hair was soft, it looked dull and flat. The softness wasn't any softer than how soft my hair had always been (it really is soft) (see if I can squeeze the word soft in here one more time :p), so I decided it wasn't worth it. I tried Ktani's Movie Star Shampoo method once three days ago and I loved it, so I might try going with that for a while and see what happens.
My hair will normally not absorb coconut oil for the life of it; trying to oil my hair with it will just get me oily, greasy hair. Not crunchy, just... Greasy. I love sunflower oil though, my hair absorbs it immediately. So that's what I use as a leave-in.
I've gone completely cone-free and sulfates-free for three months now. Can't say I've noticed a big difference, maybe just way more split ends now that my hair doesn't have a silicone coating.
Which brings me to my next point: my hair is choke full with split ends and white dots! I got my last trim in September but you couldn't tell by looking at my ends. I S&D weekly, but it doesn't seem to make a difference. My ends don't feel dry at all, but the splits and dots don't seem to care.
Finally, my biggest problem: my hair does NOT grow. I refuse to believe it has reached terminal length already, but it seems to have! I never really measured before, but I remember it being collarbone length back in February of 2010. It's 25 inches now and has been for a while. Is it just that it grows slowly or have I hit a halt?
I guess I don't eat as well as I should, since I'm a student and can't really cook where I live. I eat out every day, and even though I do my best to eat well, it's not always easy. Maybe that could be the issue?
A hairdresser once told me that my hair was a bit like Asian hair in that it could withstand years of bad treatment and be fine until it reached the point where it just suddenly couldn't take any more and died. I'm not sure if I believe this.
So here are some pictures of my hair, a month ago and today. Could you kind folks also help me figure out my hair type?
A month ago:
http://i54.tinypic.com/21azepz.jpg
http://i52.tinypic.com/315g84j.jpg
http://i54.tinypic.com/6892eu.jpg
the frizz, the frizz!
http://i55.tinypic.com/30iazxt.jpg
My hair now (in slightly different light):
http://i55.tinypic.com/2iru1ww.jpg
http://i54.tinypic.com/2i23eyc.jpg
tl;dr I have a legion of split ends and white dots; frizz beyond your wildest imagination; no hair growth. Also, I've no idea what my hair type is. Please provide me with your wisdom, LHCers.
I come to you now, LHCers, for it is my time of need.
I discovered LHC three months ago. Up until then, my hair's life was torturous: I had never even considered "hair care". My has was always resilient, and aside from numerous split ends it always looked healthy; it was soft and shiny, maybe a bit frizzy but not dry. It was good, honest hair.
I've been chemically dying my hair since I was, say, 15 (I'm 20 now) and I've been flat ironing even before that. I flat ironed with a passion: see, when I started to pay attention to what my hair was like, back when I was 13, I was rewarded with a big frizzy, oily ball of... I dare not call it wavy hair, for my hair didn't fall in soft, beautiful waves but unruly bents!
So I began flat ironing it once, maybe twice per day for years. Then I decided that my natural mid brown hair was unbecoming of me, and that I desired dark, chocolatey shiny locks! In comes the hair dye.
I stopped flat ironing my hair daily about a year ago, but still did it occasionally. It has only been 6 months that I've completely stopped it, and 2 months that I've given up blowdrying as wall. I've decided to go completely heat free. I still dyed my hair, and I last dyed it at the beginning of September with an organic hair dye. I've decided to give this up as well and research henna and indigo instead.
In August, I started to CO my hair. I kept this up for 2 months and it wasn't half bad, but even though my hair was soft, it looked dull and flat. The softness wasn't any softer than how soft my hair had always been (it really is soft) (see if I can squeeze the word soft in here one more time :p), so I decided it wasn't worth it. I tried Ktani's Movie Star Shampoo method once three days ago and I loved it, so I might try going with that for a while and see what happens.
My hair will normally not absorb coconut oil for the life of it; trying to oil my hair with it will just get me oily, greasy hair. Not crunchy, just... Greasy. I love sunflower oil though, my hair absorbs it immediately. So that's what I use as a leave-in.
I've gone completely cone-free and sulfates-free for three months now. Can't say I've noticed a big difference, maybe just way more split ends now that my hair doesn't have a silicone coating.
Which brings me to my next point: my hair is choke full with split ends and white dots! I got my last trim in September but you couldn't tell by looking at my ends. I S&D weekly, but it doesn't seem to make a difference. My ends don't feel dry at all, but the splits and dots don't seem to care.
Finally, my biggest problem: my hair does NOT grow. I refuse to believe it has reached terminal length already, but it seems to have! I never really measured before, but I remember it being collarbone length back in February of 2010. It's 25 inches now and has been for a while. Is it just that it grows slowly or have I hit a halt?
I guess I don't eat as well as I should, since I'm a student and can't really cook where I live. I eat out every day, and even though I do my best to eat well, it's not always easy. Maybe that could be the issue?
A hairdresser once told me that my hair was a bit like Asian hair in that it could withstand years of bad treatment and be fine until it reached the point where it just suddenly couldn't take any more and died. I'm not sure if I believe this.
So here are some pictures of my hair, a month ago and today. Could you kind folks also help me figure out my hair type?
A month ago:
http://i54.tinypic.com/21azepz.jpg
http://i52.tinypic.com/315g84j.jpg
http://i54.tinypic.com/6892eu.jpg
the frizz, the frizz!
http://i55.tinypic.com/30iazxt.jpg
My hair now (in slightly different light):
http://i55.tinypic.com/2iru1ww.jpg
http://i54.tinypic.com/2i23eyc.jpg
tl;dr I have a legion of split ends and white dots; frizz beyond your wildest imagination; no hair growth. Also, I've no idea what my hair type is. Please provide me with your wisdom, LHCers.