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twilight
April 26th, 2011, 06:54 PM
today hair met scissors and they decided to be friends again after a long period of not speaking to each other.

(read: my tailbone-length hair is NO MORE!)

i don't know if this happens to any of you, but every so often i get this sneaking little worm of a thought to 'just cut it,' and while i usually brush it off after a quick moment in front of the mirror, this time--a few weeks ago--it just wouldn't quit. so i started looking at photos of how would cut my hair eventually. i saved them. i stared at them. and the itch got worse.

i realize the following are all lame excuses, but to be fair, i do have two very young children, i live in HOT florida, i have no time to myself (to care for or enjoy crazylong hair), and honestly i was just tired of dealing with it. i dreaded wash day. i hated combing it out. i resented having to continue to henna in order to prevent root ugliness. plus i'm turning 30 this year, and i'm ready for change.

and you know what? i LOVE it! no regrets, though i do feel a little bit of bittersweet nostalgia. it's been short like this before, so i knew what to expect, but i forgot just how freaking awesome it is not having to do anything to it. it's so light and fluffy and fun, and i look forward to getting it cut in different ways when i need a trim.

it was absolutely lovely to have long, beautiful hair when i was enjoying it... it really was. but i stopped loving it, and it was time for it to go. farewell, long hair. i'll miss you... sometimes.

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-35E6GtOaEUk/Tbdo0kpQ7zI/AAAAAAAAATA/GAq8k5OMVgk/s1600/pre-posthairsmaller.jpg

ps--fyi, i am not leaving LHC; this place is fantastic and i have learned so much from the collective wisdom and beauty of you all and would not give that up... i'm just not a "longhair" anymore, at least technically. i will always have long hair in spirit...
:cheese:

jojo
April 26th, 2011, 07:02 PM
Wow, it looks really, really good! there must be something in the LHC air a few are getting urges to cut. I am still loving my length but had the itch to cut my fringe back in, so I did! Hair is for enjoying and I am glad your happy with your hair.

LisaMonster
April 26th, 2011, 07:06 PM
It looks really awesome! I love it!

Don't feel like you have to make excuses for cutting it. You cut it because you wanted to and it looks great and you are happy.

Perfect :)

Rocket22
April 26th, 2011, 07:07 PM
I think it looks great and hair is all about what the person wearing wants! Not everyone should have long hair forever! unless of course you want that :)

Kristamommyx3
April 26th, 2011, 07:08 PM
Long or short, it's lovely! I'm a SAHM in hot hot FL, too! Also into natural stuff and had a midwife for babies two and three...we have lots in common! :D

Slinks
April 26th, 2011, 07:26 PM
WOW, awesome change !! .. so glad you like it and guess what, so do I .. lol .. and I love your siggy !! :-)

Slinks
April 26th, 2011, 07:27 PM
Wow, it looks really, really good! there must be something in the LHC air a few are getting urges to cut. I am still loving my length but had the itch to cut my fringe back in, so I did! Hair is for enjoying and I am glad your happy with your hair.

absolutely .. but it's been for the best ;-)

JulietCapulet
April 26th, 2011, 07:37 PM
Your new do looks very cool!

Knotted
April 26th, 2011, 08:06 PM
Your long hair was beautiful, but so is your new short hair! I love it!

braidedbeauty
April 26th, 2011, 08:22 PM
It's wonderful that you can carry such a short look a lot of people can't! (me included I think haha)

Quixotica
April 26th, 2011, 08:25 PM
Looks great, dear! I did the same thing, chopped off BSL length hair to a 1/4" pixie....don't regret it, either :) Do what makes you happy!!

Lildove
April 26th, 2011, 09:47 PM
Your new cut looks awesome on you! It reminds me of the cut I got soon after my daughter was born. Very nice cut indeed. :D

MonaLisa
April 27th, 2011, 01:35 AM
Very brave!:) Envy you for that!

And both looks are great! You are very beautiful!

mrs_coffee
April 27th, 2011, 02:36 AM
So pretty! I love the cut on you and I'm glad you're pleased with it.

nazzooyzo
April 27th, 2011, 02:41 AM
ooh i love it!!! definitely suits you and yeah short hair is soooo easy

Fethenwen
April 27th, 2011, 02:45 AM
I totally understand. No reason to cling to it if you don't enjoy your hair anymore.

Congrats on the change! It looks great :)

WaitingSoLong
April 27th, 2011, 05:37 AM
it was absolutely lovely to have long, beautiful hair when i was enjoying it... it really was. but i stopped loving it, and it was time for it to go. farewell, long hair. i'll miss you... sometimes.

Your haircut looks AWESOME and the above is the reason I have been considering cutting my hair, too. I just don't love it anymore.

Still too chicken though.

AuburnTresses
April 27th, 2011, 06:31 AM
I'm glad you're enjoying your hair! It's good to hear, and see, the reminder that you need to be able to enjoy your own hair.