Ruce
September 10th, 2010, 03:30 PM
I've always washed my hair upside down, since my hair is quite short and I can't get any conditioner on parts of it if I just let it hang. I usually comb it before wrapping it in a towel, but today I lost my comb so I just had to finger comb it. After I took off the towel, I noticed some absolutely incredible waves, but I was hanging my head upside down because... that's what I do for some odd reason.
Now, as soon as I turned my head the right way up again, these waves completely disappeared. My hair is only shoulder length, and when it's still wet, it flicks out so much it's not even imaginable. I have to take one of those round brushes to sort this out. But after noticing those waves today, I just thought to myself that they must be the waves I'd have if my hair was longer, and actually fell into place without me having to manipulate it. Anyone got clarification on this? The waves looked about 2b, and I'd kill to have hair with some body in it.
Now for the other part of my post. As a male under 18, I'm extremely pressured to have a good hair 'style'. The problem is, I don't really want a style. I just want it to be long. My last haircut was about ten weeks ago now, and my hair does something new every day. I love it and feel like I never want it cut again. I don't even have any split ends; I've almost forgotten what one looks like. But, my parents seem to absolutely insist that I get it cut often. My mum is much better than my dad; she seems willing to allow me to grow it long, but the other problem is that teachers at my school have the same attitude as my dad; that males can't have long hair.
So, my dad seems like he really wants me to get it cut. I love my hair, and I have an extreme phobia of hairdressers; a hairdresser has NEVER done what I asked, and they always cut it into a 'style' and they don't just take off a small part of the ends (which is what I have to ask for so when I am forced to go, I can leave with my hair as close as possible to what it looked like before I went in). I know that I can't last much longer without someone forcing me to go there, but the very thought of it makes me tearful. Can anyone think of anything which could convince both of them that there is NOTHING WRONG with me wanting long hair?
Thanks so much for your help, everyone.
Now, as soon as I turned my head the right way up again, these waves completely disappeared. My hair is only shoulder length, and when it's still wet, it flicks out so much it's not even imaginable. I have to take one of those round brushes to sort this out. But after noticing those waves today, I just thought to myself that they must be the waves I'd have if my hair was longer, and actually fell into place without me having to manipulate it. Anyone got clarification on this? The waves looked about 2b, and I'd kill to have hair with some body in it.
Now for the other part of my post. As a male under 18, I'm extremely pressured to have a good hair 'style'. The problem is, I don't really want a style. I just want it to be long. My last haircut was about ten weeks ago now, and my hair does something new every day. I love it and feel like I never want it cut again. I don't even have any split ends; I've almost forgotten what one looks like. But, my parents seem to absolutely insist that I get it cut often. My mum is much better than my dad; she seems willing to allow me to grow it long, but the other problem is that teachers at my school have the same attitude as my dad; that males can't have long hair.
So, my dad seems like he really wants me to get it cut. I love my hair, and I have an extreme phobia of hairdressers; a hairdresser has NEVER done what I asked, and they always cut it into a 'style' and they don't just take off a small part of the ends (which is what I have to ask for so when I am forced to go, I can leave with my hair as close as possible to what it looked like before I went in). I know that I can't last much longer without someone forcing me to go there, but the very thought of it makes me tearful. Can anyone think of anything which could convince both of them that there is NOTHING WRONG with me wanting long hair?
Thanks so much for your help, everyone.