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Honestwitness
December 5th, 2009, 07:56 PM
It's getting cold here and I really love wearing my APL hair down, because it keeps my neck and ears warm.

However, I'm also getting a lot of breakage to my very fine strands because of interference from my shoulder bag and coat hood. I would also like a more professional look for work, but I have tried wearing the simplest updo ever, a ponytail, and my ears get so cold I can't stand it.

I need to see pics of updos for APL hair that cover the ears, but still look professional. Or maybe you could show me a regular ear-exposing updo that would look good with a silk scarf to cover my ears.

Maybe I'm asking for the impossible, but I figure if anyone can solve my problem, it's got to be someone on this forum.

Roseate
December 5th, 2009, 08:10 PM
What about a Calorimetry? (http://www.knitty.com/ISSUEwinter06/PATTcalorimetry.html) I don't know if you knit, but they are great for keeping ears warm without disturbing an updo. I've worn mine with every kind of updo I make (buns, French twist, tucks, rolls), and they work with all of them, except if I have some kind of poof in the front that the hat squishes.

The silk scarf is a good idea for indoors. I often add scarves or fabric headbands to updos for looks, it would be easy enough to tie it over your ears instead of behind.

above_rubies
December 5th, 2009, 08:13 PM
Hi Honestwitness, I made that calorimetry hat that you asked about. It has been lying around waiting for me to put a button on it. I tried but the yarn needle wouldn't go through the holes on the button. And then I forgot all about it. I'm going to go try to see if I can get it finished for you and put up a pic. It was super easy and fun to knit. I wasn't too thrilled with how it looks on me because hats in general are not flattering to me. But you have a pretty face so I'm sure it would look good on you. :)

ETA: That's funny, Roseate is talking about the same exact calorimetry that I was. :) And at the same time too.

http://forums.longhaircommunity.com/picture.php?albumid=4072&pictureid=56910 http://forums.longhaircommunity.com/picture.php?albumid=4072&pictureid=56911

Honestwitness
December 5th, 2009, 08:25 PM
Thanks for the quick response, Roseate and above_rubies. I did crochet myself a calorimetry and it works fine for outdoors. However, it's too bulky for indoors and not very professional-looking for the secretary to the CEO.

I'll have to try adding the silk scarf to an updo and have it cover my ears. That should give the warmth I need, but I'm not sure it will look professional enough. But, I will give it a go.

Sometimes, I toy with the idea of wearing a wig over a flat bun. But that would cost a bit of money and I think I would have a hard time finding one to match my color. Several of the African-American ladies at work wear wigs and/or falls to work and it suits them very well. I guess I could start a fad for us Caucasian ladies to wear fake hair.

melrose1985
December 5th, 2009, 08:41 PM
What about a Calorimetry? (http://www.knitty.com/ISSUEwinter06/PATTcalorimetry.html) I don't know if you knit, but they are great for keeping ears warm without disturbing an updo. I've worn mine with every kind of updo I make (buns, French twist, tucks, rolls), and they work with all of them, except if I have some kind of poof in the front that the hat squishes.

The silk scarf is a good idea for indoors. I often add scarves or fabric headbands to updos for looks, it would be easy enough to tie it over your ears instead of behind.

I so wish i knew how to knit. I love this!

Carolyn
December 5th, 2009, 08:45 PM
How about wearing your hair in a bun when you are outside? You could wear a calorimetry then to keep your ears warm. When you get to work, take your bun down and wear your hair down indoors. Do you wear turtlenecks to keep your neck warm? I think you could do a folded silk scarf to cover your ears for indoors.

I'm so hot all the time, I'd be glad to ship some of my ever continuing "personal summer" down to you. I roast all the time and I'd be glad to share :D

amoulixes
December 5th, 2009, 08:57 PM
What about a Calorimetry? (http://www.knitty.com/ISSUEwinter06/PATTcalorimetry.html) I don't know if you knit, but they are great for keeping ears warm without disturbing an updo. I've worn mine with every kind of updo I make (buns, French twist, tucks, rolls), and they work with all of them, except if I have some kind of poof in the front that the hat squishes.

The silk scarf is a good idea for indoors. I often add scarves or fabric headbands to updos for looks, it would be easy enough to tie it over your ears instead of behind.

Wow, that is totally awesome! Brb, gotta get my needles and yarn! :knit:

Also, I have no ideas, came in here to see what everyone else had to share! :)

Honestwitness
December 5th, 2009, 09:02 PM
Thanks for the ideas, Carolyn. I think the updo/downdo quick change between indoors and outdoors is a good idea. That's basically what I'm doing right now. I have to wet and re-scrunch the length, once I get to work, but that's turning out to be a good thing, because my hair needs all the moisture it can get.

However, as my hair gets longer, I'm thinking I should wear it up all day, in order to look more professional. I wear a business suit every day and I just have this image in my mind that an updo looks more serious and less romantic or flirty.

Maybe I'm worrying about this too much, but I'm also thinking about how longer hair worn down gets so easily damaged from things like door knobs, chair backs, etc. My poor hair is already much thinner on the right side because of my shoulder bag. I've learned my lesson on that and I try to swing it out of the way before I hike the bag up onto my shoulder, but I don't want to subject it to any more damage from other sources as it gets longer.

Honey39
December 6th, 2009, 06:00 AM
You know, I understand what you mean. My compromise is somewhere between the two. I wear my hair up to go to work, then take it down around lunchtime.

I suppose my rationale is that I want my hair to be wearable more than I want super-long hair, so I am happy to wear my hair down the majority of the time. I am gentle with it, no blow-drying, no brushing etc, lots of oiling and deep treatments. But wearing my hair up just isn't for me, I want my hair long to wear down. So I suppose what I'm saying to you is to think about the things bothering you - if it's protecting it outside, why not scoop it up to go to work/go home, and wear it down at work? I also find my hair is very warm, and if I wear it up, I need scarves around my neck!!

You have very pretty hair, btw.

wendyg
December 6th, 2009, 06:33 AM
How about parted in the middle, hair drawn over ears into a single braid in the back? I've always thought a smooth braid looks professional.

Would it be weird to ask your CEO what ?he thinks?

wg

Gabriel
December 6th, 2009, 06:48 AM
Your hair is so pretty!

What about a snood with a wide band? The netted part holding your hair could be fairly simple or even match the color of your hair and the band could be worn over you ears.

Simple but elegant cloth headbands that are wide enough to slip your ears under can be nice and keep hair neat and professional. You can wear them with your hair in an updo even.

windinherhair
December 6th, 2009, 07:01 AM
I so wish i knew how to knit. I love this!

I saw it and loved it too! I don't know how to knit either. I searched on etsy.com and you can buy them on there. I do know some people who can knit though. Hmm...:)

jasper
December 6th, 2009, 07:42 AM
This quesion has me thinking of Jane Eyre. That character is depicted in illustrations or portrayed in movies with an updo that covers her ears (and half the time a bonnet :wink:) so it seems like you could do something similar. Just comb the sides over your ears and style a low bun or roll. here's pics:

http://eleanorbess.files.wordpress.com/2009/04/janeeyre.jpg
http://www.toptenz.net/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/jane-eyre.jpg
http://batatatransgenica.files.wordpress.com/2008/05/ruth-wilson.jpg
http://www.newvideo.com/images/boxart/AAE70026-03.jpg
http://blog.mlive.com/kzgazette/entertainment/2009/04/large_JaneEyre.jpg

Wind
December 6th, 2009, 07:50 AM
I often wear mine over my ears, in a low bun or peacock twist, so just the earlobe is bare. To avoid looking too severe, I'll take a few bobby pins and make a little pouf at the crown. I think this looks very professional and would be totally work appropriate. :)

pepperminttea
December 6th, 2009, 07:51 AM
This quesion has me thinking of Jane Eyre. That character is depicted in illustrations or portrayed in movies with an updo that covers her ears (and half the time a bonnet :wink:) so it seems like you could do something similar. Just comb the sides over your ears and style a low bun or roll. here's pics:

http://eleanorbess.files.wordpress.com/2009/04/janeeyre.jpg
http://www.toptenz.net/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/jane-eyre.jpg
http://batatatransgenica.files.wordpress.com/2008/05/ruth-wilson.jpg
http://www.newvideo.com/images/boxart/AAE70026-03.jpg
http://blog.mlive.com/kzgazette/entertainment/2009/04/large_JaneEyre.jpg

I thought of something similar to this, although braiding so perhaps not quite as warm - Regency style, sort of. Separate the front couple of inches of hair, either side of the parting, and braid them. Bun the rest, and bring the braids to the back, over your ears, securing the ends under the bun.

Honestwitness
December 6th, 2009, 10:52 AM
Thanks everyone for all your ideas and your compliments. I tried the scarf over the ears idea, but it left my neck too cold. I also tried my hair over my ears with the same results.

You know, this is really comical, because I wore very short hair year around for over thirty years and I just lived with the cooler neck and ears, even indoors. I didn't know what I was missing until I had longer hair. It feels sooooo good to have built-in insulation for my neck and ears.
I just thought of something. I have seen pics on other threads of a woman in a Nordic country who is the president or head of state and she has really long hair. I've only seen her with updos, but can anyone direct me to pics of her with her hair down?

Also, to answer your question about asking my CEO...uh...no...I don't think so. He's very careful, and rightfully so, to never make comments about my appearance. That could be construed as inappropriate workplace behavior. Not only that, but I don't want to give him any ideas about legislating hair length at work.


I like the snood idea. I'll have to give that some more thought and research. I have been re-learning crochet lately, and I may just decide to make one that harmonizes with my haircolor, as you suggested.

Thanks for sharing your calorimetry pics. Yours looks better than mine. I wonder if there's an appropriate yarn to make one I could wear indoors. Hmmm...maybe something soft and delicate, instead of bulky. I have thought of making one out of "eyelash" yarn. That might be intriguing.

Keep the ideas coming, friends.

jasper
December 6th, 2009, 10:58 AM
What about a little space heater next to your desk? Or wearing extra layers under your professional attire? Silk thermal underwear is pretty warm. If the rest of you is warm enough maybe you'll be glad to let some heat out at the ears.

spidermom
December 6th, 2009, 11:07 AM
It's a lot harder to do with my length now, but I used to be able to get enough slack to have my hair go over my ears with a french twist, and I think the style looks more professional than a bun by far.

Roseate
December 6th, 2009, 11:33 AM
...I just thought of something. I have seen pics on other threads of a woman in a Nordic country who is the president or head of state and she has really long hair. I've only seen her with updos, but can anyone direct me to pics of her with her hair down?...


...I like the snood idea. I'll have to give that some more thought and research. I have been re-learning crochet lately, and I may just decide to make one that harmonizes with my haircolor, as you suggested...


Are you talking about Julia Timoshenko (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yulia_Tymoshenko), PM of Ukraine? The faux crown braid is her signature style, but every now and then she appears with her hair down. She has her hair in a loose half-up over her ears here (http://mts1.files.wordpress.com/2009/02/yulia-tymoshenko-017.jpg), and looks very nice.

Also, check out this snood pattern (http://www.jiffypatternshop.com/catalog.php/patterns/dt52097/pd994355/1940s_CROCHETED_PURSE__SNOOD_HAT_Shell_Pattern); it's designed to cover your ears and is more indoorsy than the calorimetry. This etsy seller (http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=35460237) makes the same style.

Raponsje
December 6th, 2009, 12:04 PM
I love Julia Timoshenko's hairstyle. I am curious of her length and hairtype.

Sissy
December 6th, 2009, 12:24 PM
Are you talking about Julia Timoshenko (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yulia_Tymoshenko), PM of Ukraine? The faux crown braid is her signature style, but every now and then she appears with her hair down. She has her hair in a loose half-up over her ears here (http://mts1.files.wordpress.com/2009/02/yulia-tymoshenko-017.jpg), and looks very nice.

Also, check out this snood pattern (http://www.jiffypatternshop.com/catalog.php/patterns/dt52097/pd994355/1940s_CROCHETED_PURSE__SNOOD_HAT_Shell_Pattern); it's designed to cover your ears and is more indoorsy than the calorimetry. This etsy seller (http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=35460237) makes the same style.

Yulia Tymoshenko is beautiful... but her braid is real, isn't it?

Unfortunately, I don't have any hints for keeping warm while wearing updos in a professional setting... I LOVE my newly made hannah hat though for outdoors wearing.

rchorr
December 6th, 2009, 12:29 PM
Chuckle! I had to laugh when I read this subject! Frequently, when I wear my hair up in the winter, I'll wear a nice scarf around my neck. Now, I REALLY DON'T (and I mean REALLY don't!) like things around my neck, so I just drape it around my shoulders and the back of my neck. That's for "inside."

When I'm outside, I've got enough clothing on to keep my neck warm.

RCHORR'

rchorr
December 6th, 2009, 12:31 PM
Oh, I forgot. I also have the earmuffs that go behind your head (under your hair or bun or braid or whatever). I can't remember what they're called, but it keeps your ears warm w/o messing up your hair.

RCHORR'

florenonite
December 6th, 2009, 12:58 PM
This quesion has me thinking of Jane Eyre. That character is depicted in illustrations or portrayed in movies with an updo that covers her ears (and half the time a bonnet :wink:) so it seems like you could do something similar. Just comb the sides over your ears and style a low bun or roll. here's pics:

http://eleanorbess.files.wordpress.com/2009/04/janeeyre.jpg
http://www.toptenz.net/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/jane-eyre.jpg
http://batatatransgenica.files.wordpress.com/2008/05/ruth-wilson.jpg
http://www.newvideo.com/images/boxart/AAE70026-03.jpg
http://blog.mlive.com/kzgazette/entertainment/2009/04/large_JaneEyre.jpg

That was the fashion in the late Victorian period; I don't see why the OP couldn't do it now. I actually quite like the look.

teela1978
December 6th, 2009, 01:12 PM
I so wish i knew how to knit. I love this!


I saw it and loved it too! I don't know how to knit either. I searched on etsy.com and you can buy them on there. I do know some people who can knit though. Hmm...:)

Target had what looked like calorimetries the last time I was in there :)

Roseate
December 6th, 2009, 02:02 PM
Yulia Tymoshenko is beautiful... but her braid is real, isn't it?

I just called it a faux crown braid 'cause it's just a braid wrapped around and pinned rather than a "real" crown braid (http://www.dreamweaverbraiding.com/braid_examples/braid_examples_crowns.htm), which is French or Dutch braided all the way around.

Though, it actually does look like she uses at least a bit of extra hair in her braid; it is utterly taper-free and exactly the right length to go neatly around her head, and her hair is not quite waist length when down. Maybe, maybe not :shrug:; she has gorgeous hair either way!

Sissy
December 6th, 2009, 08:56 PM
I just called it a faux crown braid 'cause it's just a braid wrapped around and pinned rather than a "real" crown braid (http://www.dreamweaverbraiding.com/braid_examples/braid_examples_crowns.htm), which is French or Dutch braided all the way around.

Though, it actually does look like she uses at least a bit of extra hair in her braid; it is utterly taper-free and exactly the right length to go neatly around her head, and her hair is not quite waist length when down. Maybe, maybe not :shrug:; she has gorgeous hair either way!

so it would be easier to do than a real crown braid? Anyhow, her hair is lovely... I do see the point you bring up about zero taper... I have not tried a braid in my hair yet but I imagine there would be a quite a diff in the thickness of my brad at start and finish.

However, she has stated that she is a pretty natural person and that her braid is natural.

Roseate
December 6th, 2009, 10:03 PM
so it would be easier to do than a real crown braid? Anyhow, her hair is lovely... I do see the point you bring up about zero taper... I have not tried a braid in my hair yet but I imagine there would be a quite a diff in the thickness of my brad at start and finish.

However, she has stated that she is a pretty natural person and that her braid is natural.

The braid-wrapped-around is easier to do but requires more length; I have a great big head and my braid has never been long enough, even when my hair was around hip length. That's mostly why I was wondering if she added extra hair. But maybe she is tall (so waist on her=longer hair), or has a smaller head.

The French or Dutch crowns can be done with much shorter hair, but I haven't succeeded at making one yet!

(Sorry HonestWitness for the threadjack.... um... in apology I give you a link to some lovely scarf-tying instructions (http://www.tznius.com/cgi-bin/tying.pl) which might warm your head!)

Tressie
December 7th, 2009, 06:12 AM
What about a Calorimetry? (http://www.knitty.com/ISSUEwinter06/PATTcalorimetry.html) I don't know if you knit, but they are great for keeping ears warm without disturbing an updo. I've worn mine with every kind of updo I make (buns, French twist, tucks, rolls), and they work with all of them, except if I have some kind of poof in the front that the hat squishes.

The silk scarf is a good idea for indoors. I often add scarves or fabric headbands to updos for looks, it would be easy enough to tie it over your ears instead of behind.



Sorry, for the mini-hijack, but I wanted to thank you for this link! What a cute idea~ :D I don't know that my knitting skills are that good, but I can try!

Gabriel
December 7th, 2009, 07:44 AM
I saw these on JohnlozDesign's Etsy and thought of this thread. What about a cowl/neck warmer if you figure out an ear warming updo to keep your neck warm? Some of these are very pretty and would look good worn indoors with professional clothes.

http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=34369914

Sissy
December 7th, 2009, 10:03 PM
I saw these on JohnlozDesign's Etsy and thought of this thread. What about a cowl/neck warmer if you figure out an ear warming updo to keep your neck warm? Some of these are very pretty and would look good worn indoors with professional clothes.

http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=34369914

some do look dressy enough to wear inside... very nice!

Honestwitness
December 8th, 2009, 01:19 PM
Thanks to you all for responding. I'm happily wearing my hair in a Gibson tuck today, with the side hair drooping over my ears. It's plenty warm. I have some nape hairs that naturally refuse to grow any longer than about four or five inches long and are naturally curly. They are really sparse, but if I wet them and push them up, they will curl and dry in nice ringlets. The ringlets also help keep my neck warm. I sort of look more like the old lady that I am with my hair like this, but at least my poor, fragile hair is now being protected. Yay!!!

I really appreciate everyone's feedback and suggestions.

Honestwitness
December 8th, 2009, 01:22 PM
Thanks to you all for responding. I'm happily wearing my hair in a Gibson tuck today, with the side hair drooping over my ears. It's plenty warm. I have some nape hairs that naturally refuse to grow any longer than about four or five inches long and are naturally curly. They are really sparse, but if I wet them and push them up, they will curl and dry in nice ringlets. The ringlets also help keep my neck warm. I sort of look more like the old lady that I am with my hair like this, but at least my poor, fragile hair is now being protected. Yay!!!

Here's a pic.
http://i787.photobucket.com/albums/yy154/honestwitness/utf-8BSU1HMDEzMDcuanBn.jpg
I really appreciate everyone's feedback and suggestions.

linda g
December 8th, 2009, 02:46 PM
Oh, I like that Gibson tuck. I think I need to learn how to do that.

Carolyn
December 8th, 2009, 02:55 PM
I think the Gibson Tuck looks great on you. Glad you found a style that will help keep you warm.

klcqtee
December 8th, 2009, 05:06 PM
I find a loose gibson tuck tends to keep me warmer than a bun, and protects my ends. If you make it loose and low enough, it covers the ears and neck.

ETA: Oh my, apparently we all has the same brilliant idea! Glad you found a style you like! I find that a pretty barrette clipped over the "tuck" part looks nice, and makes it look more vintage.

Honestwitness
December 8th, 2009, 05:57 PM
Thanks for the idea about the pretty barrette. Now you're enabling me to have another hair-toy fix, you know. *smile*

I just got home after a long bus ride wearing a winter coat and scarf. I looked in the mirror and my poor Gibson tuck was NOT a pretty sight from all that smushing. Oh, well. At least my ends were protected!!!