Introduction and Questions

[harveysmom]

I wasn't sure if this was the right place to put an intro but i also want some advice on my ends. Do they still look healthy or should I freshen them up a little? I get pretty tangly unless I wear it completely up(which is kind of boring), but I do want to protect my lengths. Even the tassles of braids are pretty disheveled by the end of a long day. Just some advice welcome, maybe how much I should trim if any, it's been a good 8 months since anything more than an s&d...here's some pics to judge from

http://i1291.photobucket.com/albums/b545/waltersmom1/hairlength%20001_zpsai64tve3.jpg (http://s1291.photobucket.com/user/waltersmom1/media/hairlength%20001_zpsai64tve3.jpg.html)

http://i1291.photobucket.com/albums/b545/waltersmom1/hairlength%20002_zpsf7n0toib.jpg (http://s1291.photobucket.com/user/waltersmom1/media/hairlength%20002_zpsf7n0toib.jpg.html)

I had layers to begin with, and they're turning into fairytale ends. I dont mind fairytales but just want some hair experienced peoples opinions on whether it still looks alright or if a trim is due. If it were up to my family I'd be cut back to waist al least! thank you in advance and all feedback welcome!

[flickm]

I'm not as experienced as a lot of people here, but your ends look like mine, slightly dry and porous. I oil my ends, and that stops them tangling. I'm trying not to trim, having had quite a drastic cut a month or so ago (mid back to just below the shoulders - though it's to my armpits now). Your hair is beautiful, BTW.

[harveysmom]

I'm not as experienced as a lot of people here, but your ends look like mine, slightly dry and porous. I oil my ends, and that stops them tangling. I'm trying not to trim, having had quite a drastic cut a month or so ago (mid back to just below the shoulders - though it's to my armpits now). Your hair is beautiful, BTW.

Thank you! I'm trying to keep everything i can lol. Sometimes oils and serums work, and then others it seems like it makes them pick up everything if you know what i mean.

[elsieivy]

Your hair looks great! If your ends are getting tangled I'd try clarifying them before considering a trim.

[janeytilllie]

I think your hair looks lovely, to me it doesn't need trimming. :flower:

I think your ends look fine. If your hair ends are dry and have a Velcro grappy feeling. A clarify might help and then a moisture treatment.
Even if you don't use cones. Oils and products can eventually build up. I clarify usually every 2 months to when needed :)

For my ends, I spray mist my hair ends with water so it's slightly damp. Let it soak for a minute. Use a drop of your favourite oil. I use Extra virgin olive oil. It will seal in moisture into your hair helping to eliminate dryness. :)

[meteor]

Your hair is stunning! :applause
I wouldn't trim. :)

If the ends bother you and you want extra protection, I'd oil the braid tassel every other day or so, just a drop or two. Personally, I find that mineral oil and silicone serums can work even better than plant oils for moisturizing dry ends, but it's a very trial-and-error YMMV kind of thing.

I hear you about oil attracting lint and everything in sight... :lol: I find that silicones play a bit nicer with lint/dust than oils, but still... it's kind of inevitable. What you could do if the ends get overoiled is wet the ends a bit and smooth some conditioner on the ends and rinse them out. It sort of cleans the ends like a CO-wash while moisturizing them a bit.

Another thing to consider is hydrolyzed protein treatments from time to time. I think hydrolyzed silk/keratin and DIY gelatin treatments can be great for slightly frayed ends because they are film-forming humectants that help with temporary patch-repair.

[lapushka]

I think your hemline looks just fine. It's normal and to be expected with layering. I have the same going on, and I'm going to leave it alone as well.

[gthlvrmx]

Your hemline looks thick to me. Continue to use protective updo's and try some oil on damp/wet hair after a wash to retain more moisture into your hair. It will provide slip and moisture if you try baby oil.

[Dragon Faery]

Your hair looks lovely! I agree with the suggestion to clarify when just oiling doesn't work. A clarify followed by a deep treatment is a good way to hit the "reset" button on your hair when it refuses to behave. I would personally only trim when *nothing* worked to stop the tangles. :)

Also, welcome! :happydance: