Never let any one guilt you into doing something to your hair you don't think it needs. If you honestly believe it needs it because you look at it and SEE it needs it then trim. But if it doesn't then don't.
People tell me I need to tan and I don't run out and go get lobstered because my skin is pale or burned there is no tan. It's your body and you should love it how you want to.
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