Originally Posted by
Five of Five
I think that, with anything which is unusual or unconventional, many people tend to associate it with one homogenous group in order to make sense of it.
You and your hair are really beautiful. I hope that in a few years mine will look something like yours. I think that the "old" comment was just because there is a vaguely misogynistic expectation in society that past a certain age, women shouldn't be allowed to draw attention to their beauty. Long hair, and yours in particular, is very eye-catching. While long hair doesn't make you look older (quite the opposite in my opinion) it may draw the attention of people who think that you are older than people who are 'supposed' to have long hair. Your daughter may have been trying to protect you from people who might stereotype you in this way.
Fortunately, most people have been really supportive of my goal for classic length hair, even if they don't like long hair themselves. I have had a few comments about needing to get a proper style, or how I looked better with short hair, but these comments were phrased as suggestions rather than absolute truths, so I didn't find it discouraging.
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