Nanny's mother was a "Methodist Church Pen Pal Bride" which was not that uncommon then. She was from Northern England and of Welsh descent. When her parents died of some sort of epidemic she was in teacher's college and had to quit, her church placed her with a family as a governess.
Nanny's dad got her name through church. He was from a staunch Methodist family and was looking for a farm wife with good morals. What he got was a schoolteacher/governess that wanted a home of her own and believed that women should vote and that men and women should be equals. She believed in equality and birth control--she was even arrested once for giving out imported birth control items and information about syphilis to women at Good Samaratin Hospital in Lexington, where she volunteered.
She was 29 when she married him. Their birthdays were 4 days apart (she was older). They died 4 days apart (him first).
They were still alive when I came into Nanny's life. Her dad didn't like the idea, neither did her sister. They thought I was going to be trouble and the whole handicapped thing weirded them out. Her mom thought I was just what her daughter needed. Nanny's mom is the one that suggested she be "Nanny."
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