Site notifications show up when you have a PM or visitor message, and appear on the upper right corner of the page. There is a "Welcome, [your name]" message, and "Notifications" should be to the right of it. If there is no number next to "Notifications" then you don't have any new ones, but if you see a number you can click on it and it will itemize what needs viewing. An example might be along the lines of "1 Visitor Message" along with "1 Private Message".
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