Ok, so I'm a little confused ( easily done ) I've been reading lots on how to care for hair properly and I'm a little confused as I keep reading conflicting advice and I really don't want to damage my hair any more than I already have.

My hair is wavy/ curly and so I read I shouldn't brush or comb when it is dry and I should only detangle with a wide toothed comb when wet in the shower with conditioner In the hair... But then I read elsewhere that hair should only be brushed or combed when dry as wet hair is particularly weak when wet....

So which method is correct and kinder on my hair....?

Great advice and tips here so far- my hair is actually feeling more 'normal' already