Listen, I am going to be very blunt here. Please excuse me if I offend, as I do not mean to. English is not my first language, and things can seem harsher when you're reading them as opposed to hearing them.
Whenever you try something new to your body, whether it be to your hair or somewhere else, you need to give yourself time to adjust. You've been CO for what, a grand total of 2 days??! Your poor hair/scalp has no idea what's going on, what you're doing to it.
This is on top of the fact that you've tried at least 3 different things over the course of the past few weeks, without giving your hair time to adjust.
It seems like you're looking for an instant fix, some magic potion to "bring your curl back". Guess what?
It doesn't exist. There may be things your hair likes, or seriously dislikes, but anything you try will take time. And you should be prepared to put that time into caring for your hair, instead of bouncing from thing to thing every 3 days/week.
You have said that "Oh, I'm impatient". You've even said this to me, earlier in this thread. It may be a matter of fact that you are impatient, but you'll just frustrate yourself more and more by dwelling on your problem. Or you could work on your impatience instead of flippantly announcing that you're impatient on Tuesday and then running to try something else on Wednesday.
CO may not be for you..but give it, and everything else you try, a fighting chance before dismissing it.
Your hair may be too damaged from heat to curl again. You may have to wait until the damage grows out. My hair was permanently straightened, so I have to wait a while...and suffer through the frizzy roots and stick straight ends. But I'm willing to wait, since that means that I'll have my head of 3 curls again.
If your hair is that damaged, you will either need to wait until it grows, or cut it and start again.
While you figure out how damaged your hair is, I suggest you work on trying something for longer than 30 seconds.
I apologize for writing a book, but...I can get wordy sometimes
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