You know, I get the same sorts of comments occasionally. Even my grandma says I dress old. I don't have bangs, but if I want a bun style to look younger, I loosen the whole thing. I have a face frame through so I have shorter bits to pull out.
Buns to the side and low definitely help. Sometimes I also wear milkmaid braids as well and that does liven up a look. And side braids.
For oiling the braid tassel, I HAVE FINE HAIR TOO. I actually stopped using a ponytail holder altogether because of slippage and because I like to make as short as possible braid tassels. I use a 3-4 inch piece of plain waxed dental floss. At the end of my braid, I hold one end of the floss between my teeth, the other end with my hand and my braid tassel with my other hand. Then I TIGHTLY wrap my braid where I want it to end. After a few go-rounds, I tie it off tight, clip the excess bits of floss with a cuticle nipper or tiny scissors and it's done (though mind the little strands that poke/fray from the braid). As long as I get it tight, it stays through me sleeping on it and I have slippery hair. It's my favorite alternative to worrying about elastics and damage.
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